Relationships....

Ive never said I was a pro at love and all that stuff. But I can tell a bad relationship when I see it. Gals, here are some tips...

If you are being yelled at then you are being mentally abused.
If you are being physically hit, you are being physically abused.
If you are having things thrown at you, that is physical abuse.
If you are being called fat, lazy, useless, yup, you guessed it, mental abuse.....
The list goes on and on and on....

Now I know some of you are sitting there saying "Missy, you don't know jack". and my reply to you lovely uninformed ladies would be "Oh really?".

For two marriages I suffered. Tried to stay and "change" them. Though I obviously didn't change them, I changed my way of thinking. I learned YOU CAN NOT CHANGE A MAN! (or woman for that fact). They are who they are, especially if they think nothing is wrong with them.

Get out NOW ladies! Move on with your life, start living again. PLEASE! If not for your own sake, then for the sake of your children....Who will grow up thinking that behavior is ok. For your parents, so they may sleep better at night knowing you will be there tomorrow....unhurt. Just do it! Please.